Need man and women point of view of who has time to read my situation?

Yes. You are better off without this man. He has issues that are his own. He has no business being in a relationship with anyone until he gets his life together. He is in no position to be a responsible role model for your child. There is hope. You will get over the hurt in time, there is simply no quick fix in that regard. I would not recommend getting back together with him. I wish you and your daughter the best. Good Luck.