Sunday, July 10, 2011

What to make of this girl?

I'm 20 and sh'es 19 and we go to the same college. After her boyfriend of 3 years cheated on her, she broke up with him and I was there to be a shoulder to cry on. Of course, I didn't want to be her rebound so I waited about 3 months before telling her that I liked her and she told me she liked me too (this happened freshmen year of college). Over the summer our relationship deepened as I went to visit her house about twice a week and we exchanged our "i love you's" then. When sophomore year started, things began to change. After one small argument, she told me that we should take a break and that she wanted to enjoy the college life a little bit and that she wasn't quite ready for a relationship yet. I understood what she meant but being the sucker for my first love, I kept hope that I could have again some day. One day, she was getting to get ready for a competition in San Francisco so I made her a good luck card. Unfortunately she didn't look at it in a positive way and found it weird and creepy. As I apologized to her for the card and asking for a second chance (stupid me right?) she kept laughing it off and telling me it "was chill". Basically she said she had no more interest anymore. A week later after this incident, I found out she had gotten drunk at a party and made out with another guy and that she had begun dating one of her older friends who I had always had my doubts about when I was with her. Since she was my first girlfriend, it has taken a bit of time to get over her. I'm a good guy who doesn't drink, smoke, or do drugs. At first I was confused about how this could happen to me until I got to a point where I stopped caring. I'm moving on but I just want to know what you guys have to say about this girl? Immature? Maybe i can do better? Your advice and suggestions are greatly appreciated.

Simple puberty questions?

okay so im 14 and my birthday is in 3 months. I am not going to say I havent hit puberty, because ive read too many things saying I entered puberty when I first started getting pubic hair. But I am somewhat a slow bloomer. I have some armpit hair not much and quite a few pubes. The for awhile I have very little pubes but recently they have been getting somewhat thicker. My testicles have gotten somewhat bigger from when I was young. my genitalia (if thats how I say it) Is still the same size. I have arm hair (average) but little leg hair. My voice hasnt deepened and that what this question is. I know that this is a shot in the dark but I would really like to know about when my voice will start to deepen. ( Ive heard all that humanist crap about being yourself W.E.) I am curious. I am not happy about being a late bloomer but I am still very social. I think I am somewhat delayed from my lack of exercise. During 5,6,7, and some of 8th grade I was lazy getting fat (chubby; I weigh 184 pounds and I am about 5'9') Only recently have I stopped being a nerd and getting out. High school turned my no life into a social life and now that im excersing I feel healthier. Thanks for the help. Answer what you can :)

Is it normal for a 14 year old male to sing as low as Johnny Cash?

Hey, I'm Quinn. I'm a 14 year old boy. And all my friends have higher voices then me. And I don't mean by like two or three half steps, I mean their voice is usually an octave higher. I can reach the bottom E on the guitar, and sometimes a little lower. I find very few songs of Johnny Cash I can't sing. But anyway, I was wondering...is this normal? And I have another question. How can I deepen my vocal range? Not higher because i can sing the G on the high E string. So my vocal range is three octaves. But how can I deepen my voice even further? I can feel it getting deeper everyday and notes getting easier, but is there any exercise to make it go deeper or what? Thanks for all your help! =�

Why do i smell and im embarrassed about?

have you tried feminine wash? and dont be self conscious be proud of what you have. after all they might like it. obviously they like you just try it.

Can a native speaker of English check structure and grammar of the sentences, thanks?

I remember the first time I had a date with a boy at a local KFC restaurant. When I met the boy, whom I had fall in love with him secretly, I gave him a special gift. The gift was a set of eight bottle caps from cola bottle lids, set out in the shape of a heart on the table. The date on all the bottle caps was his birth date. He smiled joyfully when he saw this gift. The following day I went to his school, he was on vacation at the time so there was no students at the school. I sneaked into his classroom and once I found his seat I secretly stole his photograph from his writing case. I did not expect to find I was bleeding from the nose as a result of excitement when I got on the bus.

I have court in Arizona for my divorce and I can't make it out there so now what happens?

My ex filed for divorce in the state of Arizona and also filed for emergency custody for our 2 children.. My 2 children reside with me in the state of Illinois for the past 9 months and they were both born here in illinois... I do not have the necessary documentation to take a plane out to Arizona and be there for court or to take a bus or drive down there, so now what happens? Could I get the Arizona courts to switch it all over to Illinois? I am not able to get an attorney because I cant afford one I am a single mom trying to support my kids and maintain a home... I feel alone and I have not been able to get help from anyone.. all attorneys require a $2500 retainer that I cant afford.. I am also a victim of Domestic Violence and even like that there has not been an agency that is able to help me...Feel helpless and need as much info as I can to see if I can somehow have Arizona handle court in Illinois. All comments are appreciated.

Girls normally act negative towards me.?

I don't try and act stuck up i try to act friendly and buy drinks, But somehow it always goes wrong. What can i do to fix this? Being myself is obviosly not going well. Am i being too nice? do girls like jerks more? How can i create some Sexual tension so to speak lol.